From: DRAGONFLY           
To: SAAVIK              
Subject: Huh-uh         
Date & Time: 05/03/91 20:37:03
Message Number 16460

>By setting someone free (whatever that means) you have just conveyed
>that you maybe don't really care what they do and with who....
     
   Touche!  Jenn knew that she was always free to leave our relationship
when she chose, without hassle.  (Okay.  With some questions about why,
yes.)  But I made sure that she knew that I would (and, DO, dammit!)
miss her.
   
   "Setting them free" doesn't necessarily mean opening the relationship
in the way Turtle and Crystal have.  It just means (well, this should be
done BEFORE marriage...) that either one can leave the relation with few
hassles.  If they stay with you, you know you've got something real.
                        //Dragonfly//