From: SAAVIK              
To: CRYSTAL             
Subject: Huh-uh         
Date & Time: 05/03/91 17:07:47
Message Number 16449

Yeah, that made sense. If one of you doens't approve of the person for 
whatever reason, then the deals off... that's because you two are still 
"together" and anyone else whom you make love with is still basically 
an outsider and not "part" of Your relationship with each other. 
 
As for the walls issue. I don't know how much longer I can handle this 
situation, my husband just refuses to talk it out. It's like, "Nothings
wrong, I'm just tired." Or "Nothings wrong, why do you keep asking me 
that?" Both said with a pissed off tone of voice... I don't know... 
Everything was fine until I got the cyst... then came the surgery, and 
I really felt alone during that time.... It was like, the whole affair 
was just a big bother to him and he lent me little if no moral support. 
He's never been like that before. He seems so preoccupied with "what
ever" that I feel like I don't even belong here. 
Maybe something is going on that I should know about... I only hope that
he'll come to terms with it and discuss it with me.... if he doesn't 
soon, I don't know what I'm going to do, I can't live like this.... 
I'm not used to being so depressed about "things" and this whole 
situation is making me  very emotional and depressed.  But, at least
I have my friends on the BBS.... You guys could make any situation 
tolerable as long as you were here to post to...:)