From: SAAVIK              
To: DRAGONFLY           
Subject: Huh-uh         
Date & Time: 05/03/91 16:59:38
Message Number 16447

You CAN'T hold on to someone who doesn't want you.... Point! 
You can't POSSESS another person because people are NOT peices of 
property..... Yes, hold on loosely, but DON'T let go.... by setting 
someone free (whatever that means) you have just conveyed that you 
maybe don't really care what they do and with who.... 
 
Give them the freedom to be with their friends, give them the space 
they need for their own, but don't "set them free", it implies too 
much.