From: DRAGONFLY           
To: THE SPECIALIST      
Subject: Relationships  
Date & Time: 05/01/91 21:20:35
Message Number 16410

> Well, I dunno about your dates, but the ones I date usually don't
> allow that [kissing, touching] until they are ready to be FUCKED too!
    
   Ya know, that statement says one hell of a lot about society.  And
I'm not sure I like it.
     
   Let me be honest: I'm a relatively physical person, when I feel safe.
I don't mentally equate touching with sex. I was really, really shocked
when one of my dates showed me how much she equated the two: when it
came that it would not be a good idea for the two of us to have sex, she
also wanted to stop kissing, hugging -- even holding hands. 
                   //Dragonfly//