From: DRAGONFLY           
To: TURTLE              
Subject: Relationships  
Date & Time: 04/30/91 11:57:36
Message Number 16350

T> You can be physically intimate with another person, and spend a
T> great deal of the time touching, kissing, etc, etc, without fucking
T> her.
     
  *Ding!*   *Ding!*
   
   A person who I wanted (note: past tense!) as a girlfriend was only
interested in being touched (even on her hands) by me when she thought
a sexual relationship leading to marriage was possible.  When I told her
I didn't want to get married (yet), she dropped most of the touching.
And when it looked like we wouldn't be having sex, she quit allowing me
to even hug her, or hold her hand.  Sheesh!
                        //Dragonfly//