From: TURTLE              
To: SAAVIK              
Subject: Say how?       
Date & Time: 04/30/91 02:49:12
Message Number 16337

>I mean, how long can it go on that way without one of the partners
>finding someone whom [sic] they are very attracted to who wants a
>monogamous relationship?
 
That, in a nutshell, is why one of the parameters of an open relation-
ship is that you are up-front with a prospective lover and make sure
that person understands the nature of the arrangement from the outset.