From: SCOTT STEEL         
To: TURTLE              
Subject: Not 15000 atall
Date & Time: 04/29/91 16:28:57
Message Number 16288

T> I'm simply pointing out that not being able to tolerate the fact that
T> you dear beloved might ever even remotely entertain the thought og 
T> (of) anyone else is silly (and pathtic).
  
We are not talking about /thoughts/, we are talking about actions.  I 
wouldn't care if my girlfriend thought about other men, or fantasized 
about other men.  That has nothing to do with anything.   I will not
tolerate her seeing someone else while we are together.  Just as a 
clarifier, I have been in relationships where it was /established/ at
the outset, that /we/ could see other people..In that kind of 
relationship, I don't even bother trying to get close to that person, 
basically, we would spend some time together, but we were just a 
fuck-buddy for the other.  Nothing more.  If I want a meaningful 
relationship with someone, then I stipulant that neither her and 
myself will be involved with anyone.  If she finds this not to her 
liking, she knows where the door is.