From: SCOTT STEEL         
To: TURTLE              
Subject: Relationships  
Date & Time: 04/29/91 16:13:13
Message Number 16286

A sexual issue will destroy a relationship with me, that is true, but so
will dishonestly and violation of trust.  I have sometimes forgiven 
unfaithfulness, and lies, and breeches of my trust, but I don't like to.
I'm not going to enter a relationship if I know that the girl wants to 
see other people....usually that kind of information is learned in the 
beginning of a relationship.
T> A relationship built in such a way that a sexual issuse will 
T> terminate it is a relationship built on air, you know? 
 
Wrong...A relationship where intimacy is exclusive shared allows for the
two people to get closer to each other.  It allows for a /stronger/ 
foundation to be built.  It is pure foolishness to allow yourself to get
very close to someone who has other lovers, you are virtually guaranteed
to get hurt.  But, if you and your mate are only having sexual 
interaction with another, it can add to the cohesiveness of the 
relationship.