From: TURTLE              
To: SAAVIK              
Subject: Say what?      
Date & Time: 04/26/91 23:40:28
Message Number 16128

"Cautious" and "suspicious" are worlds apart...suspicion is just
about a guarantee of failure in any relationship. As for caution, I
agree up to a point...remember, "of all forms of caution, caution in
love is most often fatal" (Freud, I think, although I may be mistaken).
Sure, if you become intimate with people sooner or later you're gonna
get clobbered...but so what? If the advantages of intimacy outweigh
the risks to you, then you simply accept that fact and move on. If they
don't, you don't form intimate relationships. It's a really simple
cost/benefit thing, you know?