From: DRAGONFLY           
To: DEATH FENNEC        
Subject: Hey, No Worries
Date & Time: 04/18/91 14:08:41
Message Number 15414

   I've never been married, so I'm no authority.  But, I've had two
serious proposals.
   Some people say the idea of marriage is so that you don't ever need
to date again.  Some people say marriage is so two soul-mates can live
together, for the rest of their lives.  Some say marriage is a secure
place for children.  They're all right.
   Marriage is, mostly, what you think it is. Think to yourself: why am
I getting married?  For love alone?  For financial reasons?  (Heck! At
NC, there was a rash of marriages for financial aid reasons alone.  That
was a third marriage proposal I had...) 
   Now that the pressure is off, look long and hard at your relationship
and decide: can it stand up to the daily pressures of marriage?
                        //Dragonfly//