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echo: adoptees
to: PETER LANE-COLLETT
from: RONALD DEAL
date: 1996-12-07 01:05:00
subject: more tips

Well if Duane Towler ever needed to read a message it should be the one you 
sent me!!! If you don't want to be found sir that is your priviledge but my 
wife's real mother wanted to be found and we never knew it till a couple of 
years ago! Seems she had been wondering and waiting after over 40 years to 
find the wonderful daughter she left behind but social services covered it 
all up. Her ex-husband told social services that his wife had left town even 
though he knew how to get in touch with her he refused to notify my wifes mom 
that social services had failed to place the child for 5 years. She tried to 
get her back but was told the child was already adopted. That was BULL----! 
So you see its people like you that Duane and Deanne and BL need to chat with 
to see why search techniques don't have anything to do with power or money or 
anything else but to keep it possible and keep every avenue possible OPEN to 
be able to conduct such a search. Let the congressman go read a library book 
if they want but don't serve it up like certain people have been doing in 
this echo. The same people who told me 3 years ago to keep everything on the 
QT now are recommending to lay everything out on the table for all to see is 
absolutely CRAZY!! How soon leopards change their spots. You don't want to be 
found and you have that right but you should not make it impossible for those 
who want to be found or those who do want to search and it really makes me 
wonder what the heck you are even on here for!! I think it would be great for 
you to start your own echo for those that don't want to be found so that 
Duane and the others will follow you off of this one! 
--- FMail 0.98
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