Well if Duane Towler ever needed to read a message it should be the one you
sent me!!! If you don't want to be found sir that is your priviledge but my
wife's real mother wanted to be found and we never knew it till a couple of
years ago! Seems she had been wondering and waiting after over 40 years to
find the wonderful daughter she left behind but social services covered it
all up. Her ex-husband told social services that his wife had left town even
though he knew how to get in touch with her he refused to notify my wifes mom
that social services had failed to place the child for 5 years. She tried to
get her back but was told the child was already adopted. That was BULL----!
So you see its people like you that Duane and Deanne and BL need to chat with
to see why search techniques don't have anything to do with power or money or
anything else but to keep it possible and keep every avenue possible OPEN to
be able to conduct such a search. Let the congressman go read a library book
if they want but don't serve it up like certain people have been doing in
this echo. The same people who told me 3 years ago to keep everything on the
QT now are recommending to lay everything out on the table for all to see is
absolutely CRAZY!! How soon leopards change their spots. You don't want to be
found and you have that right but you should not make it impossible for those
who want to be found or those who do want to search and it really makes me
wonder what the heck you are even on here for!! I think it would be great for
you to start your own echo for those that don't want to be found so that
Duane and the others will follow you off of this one!
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