Aug wrote --

> When a woman says "no" and the man says "yes", there would be a  
> lot of backlash these days.

  Not to touch too much on current events, but I know women who tell a man
no when he invites her out on a date, and he never asks again because men
are told no means no, yet the woman wants to be asked again.  She doesn't want
to appear to be too eager, even
  Joe