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from: `ben` argee45{at}hotmail.Co
date: 2005-03-20 13:00:00
subject: Re: The proper age for a man to become serious about finding

Hyerdahl wrote:
> Bernd Jendrissek wrote:
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> > In article 
> > Hyerdahl  wrote:
> >
> >Bernd Jendrissek wrote:
>
> > >> Funny how it's mostly *women* who pine for marriage, an *men*
who
> rib
> > >> each other for getting married to a "ball and
chains".  Control?
> By
> > >> whom?
> > >
> > >Sexism at its best is when men "rib" each other,
fully knowing
that
> > >they NEED a woman if they want regular sex,
> >
> > Men don't *need* a wife to get regular sex.  In fact, many men
report
> a
> > *decrease* in sex frequency after marriage.
>
> Most men reach a point in life where they tire of the chase, and yes,
> most men do want regular sex with a spouse.  IF they didn't, they
> wouldn't marry.

Most men marry because society tells them to.  Being single doesn't
mean you don't get regular sex.

>
> > Men can negotiate for more sex when they haven't yet given away
their
> > power (by committing to one women to the exclusion of others).
>
> Actually, that's women.

No, it's men.  It's amazing how much more frequent sex is before the
wedding.

>  Women can have as many dicks as they want.
> Men are the ones begging.  :-)

You're consulting the wrong manual.  Most eligible bachelors don't want
for female attention.  Hell, most maried men could easily have sex with
numerous women.

>
> > >Now, women OWN themselves, and they are buying more guns to
protect
> > >themselves, sometimes against the very men who WERE supposed to be
> > >protecting them.  :-)
> >
> > Those aren't the same men.  In fact, the two groups are disjoint
> sets.
>
> So you say, and yet women are shooting their husbands and exhusbands
in
> bouts of domestic abuse. >You can't keep Maggie down on the farm
these
> days, eh?  So, women >choose today, and they have chosen freedom from
> your ownership style of>protection.  You know, the word,
"protection"
> is also a racket.
> >
> > Have it your way, Ms Hyerdahl1.  You're evidently quite happy with
> the
> > status quo.
> >
> I am indeed.  Life is good.  More women are going to college than
ever
> before;

Yeah, because "Women's Studies" is so invaluable to society.  :)

> fewer women are marrying.  More women who do marry are marrying
> later and having fewer children, later as well.

No problem with that, but don't blame men when the demographics shift
and they're not in your favor.

>  Single women are
> having children and continuing to work outside the home.

Which is harming those children.

>  More and more
> women are also open about lesbian relationships.  AND, let's not
forget
> the huge divorce rate when married women discover their mates aren't
> into doint their fair share of the unpaid work.

Gee, this huge divorce rate?  Didn't it come along at about the same
time no-fault divorce came into play?  When women discovered they could
walk away with everything in their favor?  It must be, because your
little fantasy about why women divorce just doesn't hold up to even
mild scrutiny.

>  Life is good

For sexists/racists getting their own way, it usually is.  The good
news is it doesn't last.  :)



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