Hi everybody...
I am ne to this conference so really don't know the rules and major threads
that have been going on or expected.
 
I am a 39.5 year old divorced male who was accused of child abuse as the
first reason for the divorce. in reality, once separated, i was treated for
and awarded full disability for being the victim of male spouse abuse. The
accusations have since varied and changed with is not here or there. but i
know that the ex has drilled the kids on what "" i did to them to be
abusive, my now 10 year old can recite exactly ""what i did and when -
never varying from one time to another. of course anything the ex may have
done was ""an accident - though whatever i did were few and far between and
individual events, whereas hers continue to be often and related.
 
What can i do about the kid's beliefs and feelings toward me on this issue,
other that wait... i realized time will tell many things and that the truth
may eventually be realized. other people i really don't care about - most
are realizing the truth now that i have been out of the picture for over
three years. And for those important enough for it to matter, have realized
the truth by now anyway...
 
None of the abuse was sexual in nature, i read all the time about this type
of abuse, but rarely see anything about the other types. even with spouse
abuse.
 
Anybody in the same boat as I, consider answering. Finally dealing with my
anger over this crap is now important in my recovery.
 
thanks
 
keep on typing...
 
phill
 
 
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