>> > But surely a man can give enough of himself so that his partner can
>> > depend on him, and yet keep his masculinity intact by having strong
>> > boundaries...I don't control my husband's behavior and he doesn't
>> > control mine. He provides for me financially,
>>
>> So his money got him to the front of the line.
>>
>> This is why men know if they get rich, an unlimited supply of women
> open up
>> to them.
>>
>>
>
> Giving and receiving go both ways. If money gets some guys to the front
> of some lines, beauty gets some women to the front of some lines.

The difference is that men don't claim moral superiority.

>Those
> of us who are not as financially or as aesthetically blessed as the
> rest just have to make do, I suppose.
>
> If getting laid is all that matters, sure, make a shitload of money and
> women will come from all over to hang on your arm.

If getting laid is all that matters, making money would distract from that
goal.  I've lost count of the number of women I've gotten beacuse I wasn't
locked up in some office from 9-5.


>Of course, while
> they're with you, those kinds of women will be on the lookout for a
> better-looking guy with more money, and probably won't last too long as
> a companion.

My point to the woman was that she was into money.

>But if variety and not quality of love is what you want,
> that shouldn't matter anyway, as you'll be on the lookout for a
> younger, more beautiful money-hungry woman anyway. To each his or her
> own.

Is it any less shallow to want someone for their looks or brains as opposed
to their money?

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