> 
> I've sometimes allowed a guy to take on the role of the one who lifts the
> bail etc, but more because I knew they enjoyed doing it, than because I was
> pretending I couldn't. But I play dumb for no one.
> 

I don't mind a guy carrying a bigger box, because my arms don't go around them
a lot of the time... but that's not the same thing in my universe.  Neither is
having hands big enough to wrap around recalcitrant jar-lids, or being tall
enough to reach the back of the cabinet over the stove.  If I were a little
(lot) taller, I could do that too.  

> (so why do I have so many pairs of shoes? Though it's relative... I own far
> fewer than most women)
> 
> 

See, that's Loren.  He LOVES shoes.  Me... 'is it black?  Is it practical? 
That'll do.'  My mother laments my utter disinterest in 'a nice pair of pumps.'

cinnabari, who thinks 'pumps' are mechanical devices

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