> 
> I am about to write up my weekend for my ultimatewedding.com friends, I can
> post it here, too, if you guys want to read all my weddingy goodness.
> 

Do, please.  

> and, incidentally, I am taking his name.  That will make me Mrs. Emily
> Elizabeth Weems Kinzig.  And I am not, mind you, despite what anyone says
> (and those who say, will receive bloody nubs in return) bowing to the
> patriarchy or being oppressed by his masculinity or whatnot.  Any oppression
> I experience is my own laziness!
>

  My sentiments precisely.  I didn't take my husband's name the first
go-round, did this time.  Not feeling oppressed, either... just wanted to be an
Eason.  Loren didn't expect it, which made it all the nicer.

darkelf, gods help the man who tries to oppress me

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(Compliance produces friends; truth produces hate.)

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