(mark_sobolewski{at}yahoo.com) writes:
> greg1...{at}yahoo.com wrote:
>> bluesmama wrote:
>
>> > guy's limits were, as far as how far he was willing to compromise
>> > himself in order to (possibly)laid? Frankly, a guy I can walk all
>> > over is not a guy I'd want to date twice,
>>
>> Ah hah!!  Such refreshing honesty.
>
> Not totally.

Indeed.

> She says she didn't want wimps but at the same time wanted
> guys who caved into her demands.
>
> Does this make a lot of sense?

No, but neither does the ideological underpinning of sexist
"bluesmama"'s views make any more sense.

> Later, Parg says she wants equal treatment but at the same
> time wants men to prevent her from running around with
> scissors lest she hurt others.
>
> Basically, the women want a fantasy world where they're
> both adults and children.  They want men to lie to them.

" Tell me lies, sweet little lies... "

Lets not forget " Honey, do these jeans make my ass look fat ? "

> (Of course, except for Bluesmomma's husband.  Her husband
> would NEVER lie to her.  He said so so it must be true. :-)

LOL ! Yes, pussywhipped males might behave that way, just as a
slave would, around it's slavemaster.

>> > I prefer a man with a strong sense of
>> > himself and some firm boundaries. It's hard to have any respect for
>> > someone who, instead of being assertive (not aggressive, that would
>> > turn me off too, unless it was in the right situation, but let's
>> > not go
>
> I want to say bullshit but she has a half point.
>
> I have told women off on dates and some of them got into
> the bad boy routine.  But then, I lived in the awful
> world of trying to guess which fantasy they needed at the time:
> The prince or the barbarian.
>
> I believe it was GoddessBaybee who said that men having sex
> with prostitutes were having a masturbatory experience.
> Yet, such women want men to provide romance fantasies which
> are equally absurd and unfulfilling for the men before
> she puts out.  At least the prostitute retains some dignity
> compared to these apologetic slobs who must walk a fine
> line of "respecting" the woman but watching out for her tests.

Quite. The key difference is that the Honest Woman, and the
Hooker, both reward truth. The Feminist woman rewards lies.

That difference tells us much about the Life Values of the
Feminist...

>> No matter how many women mislead us as to what they want, there will
>> always be a few who tell the real story.
>>
>> The moral, gentlemen?  Stand your ground.  Be nice to yourself.  Let
>> her storm off in a huff.  Eventually, you'll find one who doesn't
>> storm off in a huff, or perhaps one who just wanted to see whether
>> you hold yourself in high regard, as you should.
>
> Indeed.  Perhaps the most highest regard someone deserves is
> how they treat others when nobody is looking.

Quite.

> There are women who think that the world should protect them
> from themselves outside of the states but they
> are usually regarded as immature, spoiled brats.

Correctly, too.

>> > there right now) was a passive man. Generally, passive people take
>> > it and take it and then end up surprising everyone by blowing up and
>> > getting aggressive.
>>
>> As they say, "Beware the fury of the quiet man."  Let me digress.
>>
>> There should be a similar saying.  "Beware the fury of the quiet
> men."
>> Erin Pizzey noted with great frustration that men don't defend
>> themselves.  She should have followed that observation with "yet."
> All
>> this feminist BS seems to roll off us like water off of ducks, but it
>> doesn't.  Every feminazi insult rachets up the tension just a bit.
>> Eventually, the beam will fail, and the walls will come down.  Any
>> previous definition of "backlash" will be quickly outdated.
>
> They keep hearing that and they don't take it seriously.
> I can't say I blame them.
>
> Then again, women wouldn't play so many of these games if
> men were still the gentlemen of the past.  Bluesmomma claimed
> that many men expect hookups.  So apparently, the barbarians
> may be closer to the gates.

Indeed. Men have seen, over the last 40 years, women behave as
if their sex, and their use of their sexuality, was why they
should get free stuff.

So, when women teach men that women are whores, and poor ones,
why should anyone be at all surprised that so many men *accept*
what they've been taught ?

The amazing part of this, is that the 40ish professional women,
who are without spouses and/or children, could tell these women
that that method doesn't work.

But, the hook up modern women's learning curve is a flat line...

> ooga ooga,
> Mark Sobolewski

Andre



--
" I'm a man... But, I can change... If I have to... I guess. "
                                    The Man Prayer, Red Green.


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