-=> Quoting Maurice Kinal to Nancy Backus on 11-09-06  18:35 <=-

 NB> Change in itself isn't bad, but there are times when it isn't called 
 NB> for in reality... 

 MK> Understood but I was only talking about the end of relationships with
 MK> a woman where the only change is that woman is never a part of my
 MK> future (from that moment on).  The easiest breakups where when she
 MK> decided it was over and that for whatever reason I wasn't Mr. Right, or

Ah.  ok.

Reminds me of a line... "I just found Mr. Right... his first name's
Always..."      (Ok, a little bit of female humor... )

 MK> The two words that actually ended any relationships for me is when I
 MK> heard her, whoever 'her' was, say, "If only ..."  That
was ALWAYS the
 MK> kiss of death for me no matter what happened later.  As soon as those
 MK> two words were uttered it is time to figure out how best to get her to
 MK> make the decision to end things as soon as possible without having to
 MK> resort to anything too dramatic. 

A bit of basic incompatibility, perhaps...?

ttyl      neb

... Experience is a good teacher, but her fees are high.

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