From: "Lorna" 

Sexual abuse occurs when an adult uses violence to force a child to give
him sexual gratification against his or her will. Such violence may consist
of bashing and forced sex (rape), or abuse may consist of the withholding
of love by other methods that are not physically harmful, but which can
cause emotional harm.

Parents who love their children would never dream of using violence against
them, quite the opposite. They typically take good care of their children,
making sure they have their needs met, including their needs for warmth,
food, clothing, and most importantly have their needs for love and sex met.

Some definitions of abuse include anything in a relationship that is
harmful, even mildly harmful. Other definitions of abuse include only
behaviour that causes serious harm. But whichever definition is used, all
objective research has shown that abuse in parent-child relationships is
less than half the abuse that occurs in unrelated relationships. This is
because most adults love their children, and protect them from harm.

The worst form of sexual abuse, and the most common, is depriving the child
of love. This is because our greatest need as humans is to love and be
loved. Such unloved children tend to grow up with deep-seated pathological
traumas, that they try to cope with in peculiar ways, often including the
use of violence. Children who grow up feeling loved, on the other hand,
tend to become well-adjusted members of society.

All adults know that abuse is wrong. The most extreme form of abuse is
killing. In order to legally kill a real or imagined enemy, a group may
resort to denying the humanity of its victims. So the ruling Nazi party
once defined the Jews as "vermin", a sub-human species, the
Supreme Court of America once ruled that black people were
"property" in order to deprive them of their human rights, and
the current pro- abortion society tries to pretend that babies in the womb
are not human, or not yet human, in spite of what science says, in order to
justify their mass slaughter of tens of millions of innocent defenseless
babies every year. The unloving and barbaric anti-life forces in our
society would not need to deny the humanity of their victims, if they did
not know that killing them is wrong. There is no child abuse worse than
abortion.

Basically, the reason there is so much destruction in our current society
(including war, high crime rates, abortion, destruction of the environment
for financial greed, and so on) is because of those who have become
maladjusted by the current anti-love, anti-sex, anti- incest forces in our
society.

As family love is the deepest love of all, incest is seen by our anti- sex
society as "evil", instead of the balanced, loving, nurturing
bond between children and their parents, that it really is.

Lorna Mengel
A member of the Sexy News email group, on http://groups.google.com/group/sexynews

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