Hyerdahl wrote:

> kate wrote:
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> Hyerdahl3 wrote:
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>
>>>At age 42, one usually knows themselves pretty well.  If she prefers
>>>women to men, why would she be dating this guy?  Poor Dave Sim seems
>>
>>to>think that women are 'dykes' by virtue of them NOT liking HIM.
>>
>>>However, at age 42 most folks are pretty set in their ways;  it
>>>probably becomes harder to fit two lives together if she hasn't had
>>>experience doing that.  Could be a drawback. OTOH, there are some
>
> folks who simply haven't yet found love, but even>then, I'd probably
> question why not?
>
>>Though 42 is more than a decade away - I see how such a thing could
>
> be:
>
>>concentration on one's career holding out for just the right one
>>fear of emotional commitment and the loss of freedom unintentionally
>
> intimidating men being a little remote/ice queen syndrome
>
>>lack of trust in men in general/having been burned once badly
>>missed or unrecognized opportunities.> There could be lots of reasons
>
> and combinations of reasons.
>
> Sure. And all the reasons you list are valid. However, being able to
> LOVE is not quite the same as being able to commit to a relationship,
> and I must admit that I would be a bit suspicious about a 42 year old
> person who never found love.
>
>
And what about you Hymendung? When is your
spacecraft taking off for anopther star system
in search what you haven't a chance of getting
here on Earth?

D.
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>
>>Kate
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