AL> I'm not sure how you feel but my daughter is 16 yrs old and she did'nt 
know
AL>her dad only what i had told her and pictures. Well we found her dad in 
July
AL>of this yr. right here on adoptees. And thanks again to everybody who 
helped
AL>us find him. Anyway my daughter wrote him a letter and sent it to him. He
AL>called her the day he got the letter. She went and spent the rest of the
AL>summer with him. So just send the letter if you dont you will never know 
how
AL>it turns out. And that I can tell you is harder than living with being 
scared
AL>to send the letter Just do it !!!!!
AL>                                                     Good Luck
        Thank you Amanda. Your daughter's father at least knew
you had her. My birthfather wasn't told I was conceived so has no
clue that I exist. Well, he will by the time you get this message
since I did send the letter. :-) Thanks again for the
encouragement.
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