Re: Re: Daughter Advice
  By: NANCY BACKUS to MICHAEL DEIG on Wed Apr 20 2016 09:35:00

 > -=> Quoting Michael Deig to Ruben Figueroa on 04-10-16  13:17 <=-
 > 
 > Another new voice heard from....  :)   It's great to see the flurry of
 > activity...  :)   (No, I'm not the moderator, just a long-time
 > "resident", and token Mom... [g])
 > 
 >  MD> This sounds spot on to me also. Also be able and ready to answer any
 >  MD> question that she might bring up as to why you have not been in contact
 >  MD> with her. But at the same time be very careful of how you talk about
 >  MD> people that has been in her life all this time if there are hurt
 >  MD> feelings between them and you. Now is not the time for her to see or
 >  MD> hear about them from you. This is the time for rebuilding between you
 >  MD> and her and those feelings could hurt that if talked about to early.
 > 
 > Good point.  :)  Better to leave old hurt feelings behind, and not have
 > them confuse a new relationship being built...  Just like it's always
 > best not to confuse a child by bringing up the hurts one has with the
 > other parent, or play one against the other...  :)  Much better to (try,
 > at least) keep things just to the relationship at hand.  :)
 > 
 >  MD> Michael Deig
 >  MD> Bufkin Ridge Ranch -Sysop
 > 
 > Are you new to Fidonet (or newly returned)...?  I don't think I
 > recognize the names...  :)
 > 
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 > 
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