"Jonathan Grengs"  wrote in message
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>
> Hi. I need some advice concerning a romantic matter. I think I've fallen
in the
> trap of unrequited love. There's a female acquaintance I met in the
company, we
> sort of clicked right away and started hanging out together (dinner,
drinks
> etc) and have great conversations, and all the while I perceived we
> were kinda flirting with each other (a lot of eye-contact, gentle touches,
> sitting very close to each other etc)

She doesn't care for you because you rejected her by not being a bit more
aggressive. The gentle touches should have been firmer to remind her you're
the man. You missed her cues and should have been already fucking her. Don't
be fooled by her behaviour because she may only be trying to make you
jealous and force you to make a move. Fuck her tonight or forget her, that's
your choice.



 but I guess it was implied that it's
> because we're good friends who have a lot of similarities and stuff in
common.
> Then I couldn't stop thinking about her but never dared to tell her about
my
> true feelings for fear they are not reciprocated and now I think I was
right: I
> think she doesn't care for me in a romantic way because I can see from her
> behavior that she is infatuated with some other guy (who is better looking
than
> I am and who gets the attention of a lot of girls). I can't go on with it
> anymore, the friendship I mean. I tried to be distant but then she comes
over
> to ask what's wrong and I said it's personal and I'd rather not talk about
> it... What I want is to stop liking the girl so I don't have to be
stressed and
> behave like an imbecile around her. Just giving her the silent treatment
will
> make me look weird without really treating the cause: my feelings for her.
I
> just want to stop loving her and still go on seeing her like casual
friends
> (because we can't avoid seeing each other in the firm). Has anyone been in
a
> similar situation? Do you have any advice? Thanks.
>




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