connor_a{at}hotmail.com wrote:
> bluesmama wrote:
>
> > Well there are a few questions to consider here. A woman can be
> covered
> > head to toe but let a nipple pop up through a blouse and whoa -
she's
> a
> > sex object. Men turning into slobbering idiots (and I'm not saying
> all
> > men do, just the one mentioned in the post that started this
thread)
> > because they can't control themselves around a woman wearing a
short
> > skirt and a low cut top must have pretty low standards of what
> > constitutes self-control.
>
> ANSWER: I'll inject 100 times the amount of testosterone into
bluesmama
> (equal to mens hormone levels) and she how mamma feels when hot guys
> with rippling muscle and abs parade around.
>
> Oh fuck, I gotta have him, I gotta have him.

Actually, when I think about really sexy men it's not usually abs and
rippling muscle, but anyway. I see your point, though I'm not sure
about the accuracy of your numbers in relation to hormone levels.

Men have more testosterone? This is hardly a surprise. Women have more
estrogen but that doesn't mean we cry buckets every time we're sad.
Some do, some don't have self-control. That's a personality trait, not
something hard-wired by biology. Don't men have control over their
hormones? Are they as much at the mercy of them as some women claim to
be? Sounds like "victim" talk to me, whether a man whines about lust or
a woman about PMS.

> > I'm a woman with a healthy libido and I'm not incapacitated by a
> > handsome, sexily dressed man. Then again, maybe that's because I
> don't
> > objectify men in the way many men objectify woman. If - like in
> another
> > thread - a woman is seen as just "life support for a cunt" then
there
> > you go - she can dress any way she likes, demure or daring, and
some
> > guy is going to see her and think dirty thoughts. Her problem? Nope
-
> > his mind is his own to control, and his actions, too.
>
> ANSWER: I'll inject 100 times the amount of testosterone into
bluesmama
> (equal to mens hormone levels) and she how mamma feels when hot guys
> with rippling muscle and abs parade around.
>
> Oh fuck, I gotta have him, I gotta have him.

Actually, the sexiest men I know don't have rippling muscles or abs.
What they are is intelligent, funny, well-read and confident. So maybe
I'm being unfair because I can't understand how visually oriented in
their sexuality men are. I mean, I _understand_ that they are, but I
can't actually understand how it feels because I'm not made that way.

It must be difficult for men, being so visually stimulated by women, to
work with women at all - is it? Do they have to be stunning or
scantily-clad? I'm not being facetious, I'm truly wondering what it's
like for a guy. Must be confusing.



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