Andre Lieven wrote:
> "Richard J" (RichardJ{at}Nononospam.com) writes:
> > I am a 39 yr old male and have found it difficult to find a steady
> > relationship these days.   Most of the women I meet fall into one
of two
> > categories:  1) Want children before it is too late   2) Don't want

> > children, but are highly accomplished from a career and educational

> > perspective and tend to be VERY independent.   I do not desire
children,
> > so my efforts focus on group #2.  This group does not appear to be
> > marriage and family oriented.  Most of these women like to travel
around
> > the globe, read,
> > drink wine, exercise, shop at yuppie stores and other things to
keep
> > themselves occupied.  They seem to get along just fine without a
man and
> > have gotten very far in life WITHOUT a male such as myself.  What
are my
> > options in life?  I honestly don't believe these career girls want
a man
> > around all the time.
>
> They don't. So, avoid those types of wimmin.
>
> Go and look for women, perhaps younger, in places where families
> tend to gather. Avoid bars. Really avoid office parties.

I'll second that.  The real predators will look for men at the office.
Esther Vilar explains it thusly in _The Manipulated Man_:

"The only truly important act in any woman's life is the selection of
the right partner.  In any other choice, she can afford to make a
mistake.  Consequently, she will look for a man where he works or
studies and where she can best observe and judge the necessary
masculine qualities she values.  Offices, factories, colleges, and
universities are, to her, nothing but gigantic marriage markets."



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