Lack of birth control leads to three million unplanned pregnancies per
year.  One million of these pregnancies end in abortion.  Two million
of these pregnancies end in unplanned childbirth.  By not promoting
birth control, you're choosing unplanned pregnancies.  Though some
people say promoting birth control may encourage sex, that added risk
from the increased incidence of sex, is extremely slight because it is
increased safe sex, compared to the decrease in unsafe sex, turning
unsafe sex into safe sex, and thus decrease in pregnancy.

If you use the pill the chance of pregnancy is 1%, 1 per year in 100
couples.  If you use condoms, the risk of pregnancy is 2% or 2 per year
in 100 couples.  If you use both the pill and condoms, the risk of
pregnancy falls to 1 per year in 5,000 couples.  (Of course, it doesn't
say how often those couples had sex...  if you had sex every day you
would have sex 365 times a year.  One can only surmise the average
couple this statistic is based on had sex less than that.)

calculation: 1% chance for the pill x 2% chance for condoms =
= .01 x.02= .0002 ; 2 in 10,000, or 1 in 5,000.

Given a population of 300 million people in the United States, we
assume 150 million are women, If every one of these women were on the
pill, and used condoms, only 1 in 5000 would get pregnant every year,
or 150 million/5,000 = 30,000 unplanned pregnancies, and perhaps less
than 15,000 abortions.  The number would perhaps be less than half
that, because not all women are sexually active.

Thus we should promote birth control.  Specifically we should promote
the use of TWO FORMS of birth control - the pill, and condoms -
TOGETHER, AT THE SAME TIME.

As far as abortion goes, if you had a sperm and an egg sitting next to
each other in a petri dish, you would normally think it fine to destroy
them.  So has anything changed the moment after the sperm fertilizes
the egg?  I don't know, but if abortion is wrong, consider that
bringing an unwanted child into the world is not so good either, so try
not to get pregnant.  Use birth control AND condoms.  In the event you
do get pregnant, consider an abortion within the first three months,
and deal with your problem quickly.

Literature regarding different birth control methods:
http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/hormonal_contraception.html
http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/contraception.html

You can buy condoms online at http://www.condomdepot.com
Remember, be sure to pinch the tip to squeeze any excess air out before
rolling it on, and to leave enough room at the tip to catch the semen,
and to use a new condom for each act of sexual intercourse.

One final thought:  If you manage to become multi-orgasmic, you can
orgasm and have sex without ejaculating.  This would further reduce the
risk of unwanted pregnancy.  If you use condoms and the pill, and
refrain from ejaculation, the risk must fall to almost zero.  The risk
of STDs might be lower too.  Perhaps if our society were more open
about these things, we would  better understand these things, and we
would be all happier and healthier.  In the event you become
multi-orgasmic, you will  be able to have sex for as long as you want,
and as often as you want.  Read "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" for more info:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0062513362/qid=1111715174/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/002-6379066-3272829?v=glance&s=books


To get multiple orgasms begin by getting close to orgasm, and then
backing off.  By doing this you can have smaller orgasms, which can get
bigger and bigger as you get better at it.  Every day your body has
positive energy which should be spent on exercise.  By doing this, you
increase your "Chi."  The more Chi you have, the bigger and better
orgasms you have.  If you ejaculate, you decrease your chi.  Being
aroused raises you Chi, as does sleep, and exercise, and time.  Every
day you increase your Chi.  If you go 72 hours without ejaculating you
will attain maximum sperm count, and retrieve much of your Chi energy.
So you should have multiple orgasms and ejaculate once every week or
two for health.  Of course, individual results may vary, and it may
depend on how aroused you are.  But just as it is necessary to exercise
your muscles to stay healthy, it is likewise necessary to exercise your
penis to stay healthy.  If you ejaculate or exercise all the time, you
may overwork yourself.  If you never ejaculate or exercise, you will
not be as physically or sexually healthy.  'The Multi-Orgasmic Man"
teaches you to direct the sexual energy from your penis or vagina into
the rest of your body, mostly just through "thinking" it into the rest
of your body, up your spine, into your body or wherever, and "sipping"
on the sexual energy developed through your arousal or fantasies until
you have enough

Also, after you ejaculate, it is healthy to eat fruit and vitamins, and
maybe protein.

Furthermore;

There are three types of sex/masturbation:

1. Ejaculation/Orgasm without arousal - I'm afraid some guys do this,
sometimes every day, because they just want to "get off" and orgasm.
This is extremely detrimental.

2. Ejaculation/Orgasm _with_ arousal.  This is what many people do when
they have sex, and some also when masturbating.  You create sexual
energy and then loose it when you ejaculate.

3. Orgasm and arousal without ejaculation.  This is the best choice,
and allows you to retain your sexual energy, have sex for as long as
you want to, have better and bigger orgasms and be healthier.

IT IS FAR EASIER TO HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS IF YOU HAVE HIGH CHI LEVELS.
If you do not have a high chi level,  you will not succeed in having
multiple orgasms.  Your only option will be depelatory ejaculation with
low arousal. You should rest for 72 hours or so, and then attempt again
to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating.  If you succeed in
orgasming without ejaculating, you will be able to have sex over and
over again without loosing Chi.

Arousal creates energy in and of itself - that energy is used for the
orgasm.
Orgasm => takes energy and produces more energy, and yet all the
production is lost if you ejaculate the orgasmic energy.
So, thus, if you are not aroused and you just orgasm and ejaculate it,
you just take your energy and loose it, without creating any.  If you
are aroused,  you create some extra energy for the orgasm, and if you
don't ejaculate you transform that energy into more energy and retain
it all.

In addition, just as you're hornier if you don't have sex for awhile,
the existing Chi in your body developed through time, excercise, and
sleep, fuels more energy for the orgasm.  Without this energy, _and_
the energy created through arrousal, you are forcing your body to
orgasm and ejaculate, and if you ejaculate, loosing that energy, and
depleting yourself:
WITHOUT HIGH CHI LEVELS, IT IS UNLIKELY THAT YOU
WILL BE ABLE TO ORGASM EXCEPT BY EJACULATING.
re-read that last sentence...

To raise your Chi level you must either wait a period of time between
ejaculations, and/or be sufficiently arroused. i.e. be horny.  As we
know, the longer you wait to have sex, the hornier you generally
become, and a sexually attractive member of the opposite sex, such as a
hot woman naked in your bed makes you horny as well.

Orgasm takes some energy and makes it into more energy.

All I'm saying is that your sexual experiences and general health can
be even better, if you learn to orgasm without ejaculating.

Lots of people have tons of good sex - why, because they create tons of
positive sexual energy, but much of that sexual energy _can_ be lost
through ejaculating.

Good sex probably wouldn't actually deplete you, but it wouldn't help
you if you ejaculated, but you would be sexually satisfied.

Good masturbation wouldn't actually deplete you, but it wouldn't help
you if you ejaculated, but it's unlikely that you'd mentally feel as
sexually satisfied.  It's a lot more likely that you'd mentally think
you were sexually satisfied by actual sex.

The reason guys masturbate is because they are not sexually satisfied.
So, they masturbate in an attempt to become sexually satisfied.
However, masturbation does not sexually satisfy them, so they ejaculate
more than is necessary, and deplete themselves without experiencing the
positive benefits of good and loving sex which would leave you sexually
satisfied (for awhile).

Good sex makes people happy.  Women as well as men.  Relationships are
sometimes another story.

The most important point about relationships to be be honest and clear
about what your feelings are.  There's nothing wrong with free casual
sex with (g)friends, but this should be communicated, and sex shouldn't
induce love and love itself shouldn't even require sex!  If you like
someone you should like them for who they are.  Sex is an activity that
allows you to spend time with  someone.  If you have sex with a girl on
a regular basis you're spending time with her.  As such, you may get to
know her and  like her.  The essence of relationships is communication.

Relationships are based on giving.  Whether you give sex or money or
love.   It would seem advantageous to love and help those who love and
help you.  Sometimes some people may give you a just little sex or
money or love in the hopes of merely getting and taking out of you.
People who base their relationships on taking are certainly of evil....



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