First there was:
Men are from Mars Women are from Venus


Then:
The Rules


and Now:
I'm Just Not That Into You


So my question for you is, have you ever done the things listed in this
book when you just weren't into somebody you were dating (lied to get
out of the relationship, didn't call, said you were very busy with
work, said you were in the middle of a life crisis and needed time,
etc...)?  Or have any of you followed this latest, greatest method for
dating?  If so I would love to hear your stories: notthatinto{at}gmail.com



I would also like to know what your top five qualities are when looking
for a partner.  Have these developed over time?  Meaning, did you
realize after a relationship ended that the person you were with had a
quality you did not like or you realized that the next time around you
want a partner that has xxx (e.g. sense of humor, more drama, athletic,
food, etc...).  Yes, I said food.  Why?  Well I once realized after I
dated somebody that I could never date a person that didn't like
garlic.  I love to cook and do not like restrictions!  What can I say,
I'm strange :-) Have you ever at one moment thought the person you were
with might be the one, then the next day wash your hands of the entire
thing?  If so I would LOVE to hear your stories!


So, why am I asking all of these questions?  I am trying to write a
paper, which will keep all names and emails anonymous.  I am in the
process of building a web page to gather all the information, but
thought I would try to get a head start here.  After all, who doesn't
know or use google?,!


Quick note: the book is aimed at women realizing that men are doing or
saying things that all boil down to the men just not being that into
them, but in reality...both genders do it.  That being said, I would
love to hear from both genders.  I also have a sneaking suspicion that
all sexual preferences do it, since relationships are relationships so
I would also love to hear from all sexual preferences.


Thank you all for your participation!  I will let you all know once the
web page is up, hopefully this weekend schedule allowing :-)



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