kate wrote:
> >Ya. Well as I have seen from his inanne posts.... this putz wants us
> >to believe in a Free Lunch and there ain't no such animal in this
> >world!
>
> And certainly not in a dance club! The clock is ticking and the
client
> who doesn't tip generally gets ignored. That's the whole of it -
supply
> and demand.
> Not only does Ray's advice seem utterly worthless - it appears
actually
> counterproductive.
>
> A few weeks ago one of the regular posters here actually submitted
what
> I consider excellent advice. If a guy wants to meet a dancer, the
best
> place to do so is in the after hours clubs that some dancers
frequent.
> Change the environment and the girls often let down their guard.

Another piece of good advice. Actually get to know the object of your
lust. Actually tipping a dancer without the expectation of having her
tits shoved in your face, or buying her a drink can go a long way.
After all, she IS a human being.

>
> Personally; it would be a coffee shop, Barnes & Noble, the theater (I
> love old movies), or at a college sports event.
>
> The dance club scene is artificial and constrained by rules that Ray
> seems completely unaware of. For me, dancing was business, pure and
> simple. I knew it was all about sex and illusion. But in a book store
> you ask: "Have you read this?" And the ice is broken.
>
> Kate C.



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