Thanks for the encouragement and advice.  I'm still a little shakey about it 
and if you read the reply (replies) I sent to a birth mother on here you'll 
see why.  One of the ones I knew was a rebelious teen ager and that was 
disaster and I knew it would be before they started out.  The other was a 
teacher here in Miami who got a call from Calif. that said, "Could you be my 
mother?"  She hadn't told her husband or her children--or any one in her 
present life about it.  She told the caller, that yes she could and would 
call her back the next day.  She did and went out to meet her, but that was 
the only good part about the story.  Her own present life fell apart.  My 
kids are exceptional (as most of us believe) but I'm not sure I should do 
this...still not sure.  If you have any more thoughts, contact me on here 
(which might help someone in the same boat) or contact me at HEChan@AOL.com   
 Thanks again.  Helen
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