what I said was sparked by your comments
out of that context it is difficult to recall again exactly what I
intended
 
IN Alanon we learn not to threaten to do something we NEVER
really wanted to do to manipulate others
and to act on what we do say
 
give me the context again and I will try to recall and explain
futher
sorry you didn't understand'
MAYBE you never walked THAT PATH spirtually    I did!
--- Maximus 3.01
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