If you find that safe place where you can relaz alone, let me know - 
maybe I can find one like it here.   Sometimes the bathtub - hot bubble
bath helps with a candle and/or incense and/or soft music, whatever - 
works; however, I have to let folks know I want the space.  I can 
relate because I took a stress reduction class a while back and I 
learned some great techniques, that really work - but it's really hard 
finding privacy to practise them.  
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I NEED A VACATION (ALONE) LIKE NOBODY's BUSINESS.
--- TriToss (tm) Professional 11.0 - #66
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