Why is it. Society protects abusers, makes excuses for them, and often
times blames their  victims? It's always the victim's fault?

You've all read how when a woman exposes a family member who molested
her as a child, the family turns against HER?

She should stay quiet and "keep the peace' and not ruin that abusive
person's life?? Just what about him ruining hers? Her mental state.

Just how is this so? The abuser is protected, while the victim must
suffer in silence; never mind worry about OTHER victims.

You've all read / heard of scenarios similar to this?:

Wife is in kitchen cooking supper.
Husband comes home, walks in kitchen and for no apparent reason
whatsoever picks up a frying pan and hits his wife. She falls to the
floor and he says he made him do it.

Or he breaks her arm and then whines, "see what you made me do'?


The victim must DIE before the Law will step in and then again the
""Pooooor"" abuser is always protected with .... ohhh it was his
mother's fault!


This all makes me want to go live in a cave...

Cindy
Get my drift here folks?



... A good scare is better than good advice.

--- PPoint 3.01