0n (15 Jan 06) Kevin Klement wrote to Cindy Haglund...

 KK> Hi Cindy,

 KK> Wednesday January 11 2006, Cindy Haglund writes to Kevin Klement:

 >  Well sure and prolly not to happy with me laughing my head
 > off ... I felt bad about laughing but it was just one of

 KK> Ouch! nothing like rubbing a bit of salt into her wound hu...

 Yeah well I DID Feel guilty about it. For years. I don't think she
was mad at me though for laughing. It was so... spontaneous. SO ..
unexpected you know? And she's not innocent of laughing at others
their unexpected mishaps either. WHo is? :)

 KK> You mean eeee!

 hehe...

 > those things you know where someone who portrays herself as
 > and is, a perfectionist proves to be human after all.

 KK> I always try my best not to screw up too, and my employees just love
 KK> it, when I do, and they also, rub salt into my wounds. :(

We all do, try not toooo. It's primal ya know? LIke how a sick
animal will hide because showing weakness makes us easier prey for
salt wielding predators as well as those perfectly good but admittedly
imperfect people:  by laughing say: 'hey, see!? you're not so perfect
after all ' .  And the perfectionist may well if truly tops in
the self esteem department : laugh at him/herself too. (Self effacing
humor.)

The low esteem faker of perfectionism however will seek revenge.
................


 > I think my dad was upset but prolly laughed too. Mom
 > crashing the garage door? That's just too hard to believe.

 KK> Be nice, now. :)

 Yes. :) MOm took it alright I think. Or hid her feelings well,
perhaps like me strove all the harder to be sure not  to let it happen
again. :)

Only one thing. "They" (the city) finally took down the tree at a
certain fork at the bottom of a curvy road which proved a hazard to all, in
the wintertime (this in my hometown in western NYS.)


Cindy

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