re - hopefully she will get honest with herself - thanks for saying 
this.  I used to attend a group where this was almost another slogan - 
you've got to get honest with yourself about your booze problem, was 
what many a newcomer heard constantly.  It helped me so much in the 
beginning and I think it is something that I need to be reminded of now
when I have a LOT of stress in my life - probably because I HAVE a life
now and I didn't before entering this program to get sober some 9 plus 
years ago (BY THE GRACE OF GOD).
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--- TriToss (tm) Professional 10.0 - #66
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