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echo: vfalsac
to: LAZARUS LONG
from: JUDITH LABONTE
date: 1995-07-17 15:52:00
subject: Re: Ian Begg 4

Sending it to the BBS - that piece about false accusation - probably 
won't help as I don't know how to download and upload.  However the 
P O Box might help.  My mailing address for snail mail is PO Box 682
Worcester MA 01602.  I now have permission to say who it is that was 
falsely accused.  Much as described in this article, by the way, my 
husband was falsely accused by his wife who went after him for abusing 
their daughter when he divorced and remarried another woman - a lady 
who was in remission for leukhemia at the time, but came out of it 
while my husband was in prison and later died.  His brother is now in 
prison accused of the same thing and the DSS in the state of MA had 
given his kids up for adoption BEFORE he was even found guilty.
The third person I know in this state who was found guilty is an old 
friend who used to be the cub scout leader of a local troop many years 
ago.  He also claims to be innocent.
In every case I have reason to believe it.  First of all in my 
husband's case,  I wasn't sure about it even when we got married; 
however, when we came back from the honeymoon to a subpoena from the 
same ex-wife who had quit her job and gone on welfare in order to 
harass us for support money.  Interestingly enough when I got him a 
good attorney and welfare settled with him for a reasonable amount - 
what he could have afforded at the time - we never heard from them 
again, so I asked our attorney to call welfare to see what was going on
before they claimed we owed hundreds in back support or something.
Our lawyer put it on the speaker phone.  The welfare attorney said that
his ex had pitched a fit because he would ONLY be paying x number or 
dollars every month.  She said that she had told his ex that the ex 
would get the same amount of money no matter how much of it he paid and
that it really didn't matter, she got enraged, pitched a fit, told them
she would get her old job back and presently did so.  The welfare 
attorney said it was clear to her that the woman was just "out for 
blood" and didn't really need the help.  This made me realize that if 
she'd do this when we got married 12 or more years after SHE had 
divorced my husband, she must have been REALLY furious when he 
remarried the lady that died.  Therefore by her own behavior she 
convinced me he told the truth because she tried legal vengenace when 
he remarried me again - only it didn't work this time.
I believe his brother is innocent because DSS gave the kids up for 
adoption before he was found guilty.
As I've said before I am a survivor of abuse - including childhood 
sexual abuse - myself.  So it takes a lot to convince me.  
Also in my husband's case, someone in the family who doesn't like him 
who was a witness against him has told me the story of how he is 
"really" guilty three times - and she told it very differently each 
time.
Nobody has yet to answer the question that I've asked loudly.  If 
he did what you claim in YOUR Living room, WHY DIDN'T ANYONE CALL THE 
COPS THEN?  Why did you wait three years until he remarried and when 
the alleged abuse would have been long stopped by the divorce, why did 
you THEN suddenly turn him in? (This particular member of his family is
very fond of his ex and believes his divorce from her was all his 
fault, by the way - she has told me this)
I would like the information as it may help my brother-in-law on an 
appeals.
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