> My son, reunited almost 2 years now, calls my husband Pop. Maybe you 
Thanks, and sorry it took me awhile to respond.  Pop could work but meanwhile 
i have been referring to him as BobDad.  Sounds funny but it seems to be 
working, and thankfully he does understand the "wierdness" of all this.  I do 
think in his heart that he wishes I could go to Dad someday.  I hope 
sometimes that that would be possible.  Sometimes, comparing the searching to 
the finding, i think that the "after finding" is much more difficult than I 
thought and I thank God that i have this echo to turn too.  Hope your days 
are good, and as usual, if you need something in NM and i can help you can 
bet i will!  janelle
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