-> RF>  did what I wanted.  Until, I got married.  Then my spirit broke and
-> RF> I became a helpless person, until I got divorced and found myself
-> RF> again.
-> RF>  I at that point turned my aggressive behavior into assertive
-> RF> behavior and became a whole person.
-> Good for you!  Assertiveness is _sooo_ much more fun too.  They _hate_ it
-> when they can't get to you... 
I for some reason didn't become that way until much later in life.  Once I
became ohhhh about 16 or 17 I started becoming assertive.  If someone asks me
to do something for them, I will probably do it, but when a person tells me 
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this or do that, I will either ignore them or tell them to go to h**l.
Tom
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