BOB;
    Not to start a fight or anything like that...but if you "train"
a child on what is wrong or right they will become stronger,i did,
i dont spank my children,instead they get "time out"...works
wonders,however isnt that a mental punishment?i dont know...never
claimed to have all the answers,but i might have one...(if the ? is
right).:)i dont think i was "abused" as a child...just taught some
discipline(not much in the spelling area).............
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