From: Rai A
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The Middle Wife by a 2nd grade Teacher.                  


I have been teaching now for about fifteen years. I have two kids myself,
but the best birth story I know is the one I saw in my own second grade
classroom a few years back. 

When I was a kid, I loved show-and-tell. So I always have a few sessions
with my students. It helps them get over shyness and usually, show-and-tell
is pretty tame. Kids bring in pet turtles, model airplanes, pictures of
fish they catch, stuff like that. And I never, ever place any boundaries or
limitations on them. If they want to lug it in to school and talk about it,
they are welcome. 

Well, one day this little girl, Erica, a very bright, very outgoing kid,
takes her turn and waddles up to the front of the class with a pillow
stuffed under her sweater. 

She holds up a snapshot of an infant. 'This is Luke, my baby brother and I
am going to tell you about his birthday.' 

'First, Mom and Dad made him as a symbol of their love and then Dad put a
seed in my Mom's stomach and Luke grew in there. He ate for nine months
through an umbrella cord.' 

She is standing there with her hands on the pillow and I am trying not to
laugh and wishing I had my camcorder with me. The kids are watching her in
amazement.. 

'Then, about two Saturdays ago, my Mom starts saying and going 'Oh, Oh, Oh,
Oh!' Erica puts a hand behind her back and groans. 'She walked around the
house for, like an hour 'Oh, oh, oh!' (Now this kid is doing a hysterical
duck walk and groaning.) 

'My Dad called the middle wife. She delivers babies, but she does not have
a sign on the car like the Domino's man. They got my Mom to lie down in bed
like this.' (Then Erica lies down with her back against the wall.) 

'And then, pop! My Mom had this bag of water she kept in there in case he
got thirsty, and it just blew up and spilled all over the bed, like
psshhheew!' (This kid has her legs spread with her little hands miming
water flowing away. It was too much!)

'Then the middle wife starts saying 'push, push,' and 'breathe, breathe.
They started counting but never even got past ten then all of a sudden, out
comes my brother. He was covered in yucky stuff that they all said it was
from Mom's play-center, (placenta) so there must be a lot of toys inside
there. When he got out, the middle wife spanked him for crawling up in
there.'

Then Erica stood up, took a big theatrical bow and returned to her seat. I
am sure I applauded the loudest. Ever since then, when it is show-and-tell
day, I bring my camcorder, just in case another 'Middle Wife' comes along. 


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Sometimes you have to go out on a limb to turn over a new leaf
Don't trust his words, trust his actions.




      

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