*** Quoting J. Randy Mitchell from a message to Carol Shenkenberger ***
 CS> Randy, could I *request* we disband this particular line?
 CS> See, it pings a button of mine.
JRM> I apologize to you for that. It was not my intention to "ping" anyone'
JRM> buttons, Carol.
Its ok.  I knew you did not mean any harm, so merely explained why it 
bothered me.
JRM> You have my utmost respect for facing your dyslexia head on and
JRM> overcoming it.  The above statement was originally directed
JRM> to an obvious youngster who hastily replies to messages without
JRM> even checking grammer and spelling and  that "pings" a button of mine.
JRM> I feel that this message base has quite a number of astute, thinking
JRM> individuals who's written words are the only method by which we can
JRM> identify them. In these type of communication exchanges the written
JRM> word is a reflection of the authors personality, intellect, attitude,
JRM> character. The majority of the posters in ASKACOP are very intelligent
JRM> and experienced enough to use proper spelling and grammar to make
JRM> their messages understanding and enjoyable reading at the same time.
JRM> Even with dyslexia you are able to write very informative and thoughtf
JRM> post with proper spelling and punctuation.
JRM> The youngster in question wasn't even trying and after suggesting that
JRM> find a dictionary he proceeded to inform me that the kids of today are
JRM> and the older people are wrong. Can you imagine that???    :-)
Grin, yes.  I can imagine how he felt (feels).  There was a time in my life, 
when I had not yet mastered writing well enough to make much sense.  I think 
he is in the same boat on that, but for different reasons.  I would prefer to 
encourage him and I think your message came over to *him* as not very 
encouraging, although you meant to help.
I inteject another idea.  How hard is it to learn to write gramatically, if 
one never hears proper grammar at home? That is one battle I never had to 
face. I knew it and only had to learn to apply it.
 CS> Grin, now and again, I find a word I have been spelling one
 CS> way for years, is spelled differently and I never noticed
 CS> .  Oh, I use a spell checker at work for official
 CS> documents, but never at home. Lazy I guess!  (Or is that
 CS> Lasy?)
JRM> Once again...I apologize if my message bothered you...it really wasn't
JRM> my intention.
Its ok.  I simply felt a need to speak my piece on the subject on the 'spell 
checker' syndrome.
BTW, it bugged me so much I finally looked it up.  Proper spelling was Lazy 
so I had it right the first time.  One more little buglit squashed and life 
continues, this time with a slightly better expression made if I need that 
word again in written format.
                                       xxcarol
PS:  Side note, dyslexics often have mild to severe stuttering.  The effort 
to get the word out, often pushes us to have many alternatives on tap, hence 
the average dyslexic has a much wider vocabulary.  To put it bluntly, big 
words are natural to me.  ;-)
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