On 11 Mar 97  08:53:25, Cj Hoppman said the following to Moonshadow:
CH> Well i can tell you that as a child growing up with ADhD that it is a
CH> pain...after you hit about 20 you start to get the chemical balance that
CH> the rest of the world has had then it is a wholle different ball game ,
CH> as for disipline.just treat her with love and kindness,mayhaps for her
CH> self esteem you should really think of thinks to boost her morale,(i.e
CH> if she passes in school she receives a gift of (any siblings?)just a day
CH> or two with you and her,then while you have her you can get to know her
CH> real well...i hope this helps,i you need some help or you think im just
CH> crazy,let me know...ok?
    Thanks CJ! It does help, the one problem is there is little she does that 
you can praise her for...she isn't going to pass. She hasn't made a passing 
grade all year.. She does get a A in behavior...Which is a joke because the 
stories they tell me she doesn't deserve that..  They even physically 
restrained her because she wanted to leave the room and there was no reason 
too..and she still got an A in that.  All the other grades for the fourth 
grade are U's for unsatisfactory or N's for needs improvement.  Ohh yea they 
say she reads in the 4th grade level tooo but makes a U in it also.. I don't 
know where they are coming from...Ohh well hope to hear from you again! 
hanks
again..:)
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