-=> Quoting Desiree Louvre to Raymond Martin <=-
 -=> While eating Chocolate, Desiree had this to say: <=-
 
 RM> Well when he finds out the truth....dont let him just run
 RM> back home rightaway make him sweat a little...
 
  His father told him that he could move home *IF* things got very bad
 DL> and it became a desperate situation. And for no other reason.
 OOh, be careful on this one.  Sometimes we feel they are in desperate need
 of help and give it to them, when all that is really needed is them helping
 themselves.
 DL> (Scenario)
 DL> 18 year old moves out... house calms down considerably (even with an
 DL> ADHD child here)... months go by... then bingo! David wants to move
 DL> back home (which probably won't happen since he has an older brother
 DL> who is 22 and will most likely convince him to move in together)... Dad
 DL> thinks about it... and thinks about it some more... says no because he
 DL> is finally getting to enjoy the (relative) peace! And by then we will
 DL> likely be living in Kamloops, BC... 300 miles north of Vancouver,
 DL> population: 100,000. 
 DL> 
 DL> No, I don't think he *will* want to move back home.
 You never know.  My daughter did, of course, the rule was she had to go
 back to school.  She did and went to work and bought a car and out the
 door she was again.  This time for good.  Although she almost came back
 a year ago.
 Regina
... All I need is a Wave and a board to surf it on.
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