> Hello Jan-Willem, 

Hello Matthew! Sorry for the late reply

> I still read this newsgroup occasionally, but not very often. I'm
preoccupied with other matters right now, and have a very busy schedule.
Also, I have Aspergers, which impairs my organisation and time management. 
>

I have the same problems here, I have perhaps also a kind of autism, I am
chaotic. I have forgotten to read this newsgroup often. That’s why my
reply is so late

> It's nice to see you again. I hope you are well. I didn't feel
offended or bothered by anything you said in email. I'm guessing that you
have sometimes been rejected by other people in social situations in the
past, and that you feel confused about why this is. So, you're left
wondering what's OK to say and what isn't. Social situations must feel like
an invisible minefield to you, and this must be a tough burden to live
with. You are very brave and strong to continue trying your best in the
face of all this. 
>

Thank you, and I am well and also happy to see you again, I no longer do
the job I really hate and despise; many years ago I have lost my job and I
am one extended sick leave ever since. I am doing voluntary work that gives
me no stress at all. So I am not so desperate any more and I am waiting
with patience for things to come…

> You don't need to feel so guilty and apologetic all the time. You're a
good person and you contribute positively to the world around you. You try
your best in the face of difficult circumstances that are beyond your
control. There are plenty of selfish jerks around, and you're not one of
them. That janitor you told me about seems like a nasty bully and a prize
idiot. 
>

I am no longer have to see him again.

Hey I have to go now. To be continued later on the day or night
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