-> DB> -> Bryant, it appears you've missed out on part of the origin of
-> DB> all of -> this... I've lived it. I'm probably the biggest advocat
-> DB> of the -> homeless.  Not a bleeding heart; more like a translator
-> DB> -> -> I've pretty much earned to right to say anything...
->
-> DB> I have been there too--and am presently on the perilous edge to
-> DB> slip again, though none would know it to see me.  I do not want t
-> DB> "slip through the cracks" and yet there are those standing by
-> DB> [employers], knowing what is at stake and what I have to offer wh
-> DB> blithely drag their feet.  "It's not THEIR problem".  With that
-> DB> kind of approach to life, it begins to explain why there is so
-> DB> much rage and violence [between the "haves" and "have nots"].
->
-> So where does a prospective employer have the obligation to jump to
-> your whim or even need? Usually there's quite a few applications
-> taken in before an employer makes their mind up. They don't owe you
-> anything. AAMOF they really don't have an obligation to hire anyone.
-> Ok, you're broke and need a job... it's not their fault and their
-> only concern is who will be the best choice for the position they
-> desire to have filled. You're competing against other people like
-> you (jobless)
-> who will more than happily slit your throat if they thought it would
-> help them get the position.
->
-> The only obligation existing is the one you have to yourself. Get out
-> and keep pounding shoe-leather until you find the right place. If you
-> have a skill; and are very good... so much the better. I was very
-> fortunate the last 20 years because I could be very very choosy as my
-> occupation has a hard to fill need. Now, I can't drive commercially
-> any longer and I'm working at $5.00 per hour less than other people
-> make in my new occupation, for the experience. Fortunately I'm in the
-> perfect environment with no stress and my company works around my
-> school and personal schedule. You better believe I'd jump when they
-> said "jump" if it were to be necessary.
->
-> In about a year I'll be indispensible... THEN ...I'll have better
-> leverage to demand a higher salary. For now I'm just grateful for the
-> opportunity to get a fingerhold in a new industry.
->
-> Maybe you should rearrange your perspective; you'd probably have a
-> lot more success.
->
-> DB
Thank you for your comments, Don.  I was wondering what you would say to
me.  Change my perspective, you suggest.  Yes, i will have to be more
discriminating about what is truly important in life and living.
Perhaps YOU might review your own perspective as well.  If people are to
take responsibility with their lives [and not require others to "pay
their way", then opportunities must be extended.  In essence, if you
must work, then employers MUST supply that work.  Ultimately, we are all
interdependent and are responsible for one another.  It is said that
what happens to one person in some way affect all others. If you do not
acknowledge this then circumstance will "help" you to see in due course.
Best to you, Don.
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