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echo: educator
to: LEONA PAYNE
from: DAN TRIPLETT
date: 1996-07-29 23:03:00
subject: Teaching Responsible Thin

Leona,  This sound like William Glasser's control theory.  Is that what 
this is and has Edward Ford borrowed from his ideas?  
Dan
LEONA PAYNE Teaching Responsible Thin ALL  07-29-96
LP>Howdy everybody,
LP>Since it's getting close to The Day, & I've been asked about the
LP>program again, I'm reposting some of the info I related last year
LP>along with reaction about the Responsible Thinking program.
LP>I will also post the guidelines in another message.
LP>---cut---
LP>. FORUM:   EDUCATOR                             HOST: UNIONJCK
LP>DATE:  Jun-24-95 1:14pm                         MSG:  0
LP>FROM:  Leona Payne
LP>TO:    All
LP>SUBJECT: Responsible Thinking Process
LP>RESPONSIBLE THINKING PROCESS
LP>based on Perceptual Control Theory - by Edward E. Ford
LP>from his book - _Discipline For Home And School_
LP>This is a process by which you can teach self-discipline through
LP>responsible thinking.  Questions should be asked in a calm,
LP>respectful, curious voice and should also be asked in the order
LP>listed below.  Do not ask "Why?"
LP>WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
LP>WHAT ARE THE RULES?  or  IS THAT O.K.?
LP>WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BREAK THE RULES?
LP>IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT TO HAPPEN?
LP>WHERE DO YOU WANT TO BE? or WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO NOW?
LP>IS WHAT YOU'RE DOING GOING TO GET YOU WHAT YOU WANT?
LP>ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO WORK AT THIS?
LP>WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DISRUPT AGAIN?
LP>_____________________________________________________________________
LP>_
LP>   (When necessary, teach [child] how to make a plan that will help
LP>   [him/her] succeed.) After the plan is made, ask one or more of the
LP>   following questions...
LP>HOW ARE YOU GOING TO DEAL WITH THIS PROBLEM THE NEXT TIME IT HAPPENS?
LP>WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO THE NEXT TIME YOU GET ANGRY OR UPSET?
LP>ARE YOU REALLY COMMITTED TO THIS PLAN?
LP>(When needed, use some form of visual, measurable feedback such as a
LP>chart or monitor sheet.)
LP>_____________________________________________________________________
LP>_
LP>(If [child] avoids answering a question, repeat it.  If [child]
LP>persist[s] in not dealing with you, then ask---)
LP>DO YOU WANT TO WORK AT THIS OR NOT?
LP>(If [child] continue[s] to avoid dealing with you, or, if after
LP>settling down, [s/he] again begin[s] to disrupt, it means [s/he
LP>doesn't] want to follow the rules and have chosen to go to a
LP>restricted area.  Then you say...
LP>I SEE YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO LEAVE.
LP>(The [child] must leave at once and go to the designated, restricted
LP>area.  When [s/he decides s/he wants] to return and obey the rules,
LP>[s/he is] taught how to make a plan and how to use it to negotiate
LP>[his/her] return with the person in charge of where [s/he was]
LP>disrupting.
LP>Copyright 1995 by Edward E. Ford  Ph.(602) 991-4860
LP>(reproduced here by me with his permission)
LP>*********************************************************************
LP>*** ---cut---
LP>AT THE PREP ACADEMY
LP>In my school, the restricted area is a room along the lines of an
LP>In-School-Suspension room.  It's called the PRC room (Pupil
LP>Responsibility Center) but the name of it is not important; the way
LP>it is set-up is.  Ideally, it is run by a certificated teacher who
LP>has a full-time instructional aide.  There is a phone, a large filing
LP>system, a full size adult desk & table for the teacher & assistant, &
LP>desks for the students.  We have a 7th grade room & an 8th grade
LP>room, each of which has a teacher, neither of which has an aide.  The
LP>way the room works is:
LP>1.  Chris (generic any kid "chooses" by actions or words not to stay
LP>in     class … la questioning process above.
LP>2.  Teacher fills out brief slip with student's name, grade, the
LP>    date, teacher's name, checks a box to indicate student's
LP>    infraction & includes a **brief** description if necessary (for
LP>    example:  student said #@!% twice.)  Teacher lets room monitors
LP>    know Chris is on the way (can be handled a variety of ways
LP>    depending on a school's resources & the students' age--telephone,
LP>    accompanied by student messenger, e-mail.)  E-mail is ideal
LP>    because it both informs the PRC staff *&* documents Chris for the
LP>    teacher, otherwise teacher needs to make a brief note in order to
LP>    monitor the situation later. This is the extent of the teacher's
LP>    recordkeeping.  From this point on, almost every document will be
LP>    filled out in the student's own writing & kept in the PRC room
LP>    (spec. ed. students are aided by the PRC staff, but they are
LP>    still able to plan & discuss their behavior.)
LP>
LP>... Keep the books - burn the censors.
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