BM>I know a lot about that echo. My husband started it. He had
BM>to have a place to deal with his issues about my abuse. And
BM>yes, sometimes a survivor does act that way. I did. In
BM>someways I thought he was abusive...not physically, sexually,
BM>but just by the very fact he wanted me to talk to him about
BM>it.
I am glad you posted a response.  I have requested SIP_SSAS be added to the 
local BBS, but it will take a while.  Friday I filed civil suits against the 
psychologist and social worker directly challenging legal recognition of 
their professions as science (negligence, incompetence, and fraud).  It 
sounds like your husband may be informed on the literature for this problem.  
If he might, by chance, have a bibliograpy or could recommend some current 
books or journal articles, it would save me considerable research time.  My 
address is:
        Roger Brown
        P.O. Box 2075
        North Little Rock, AR 72115
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