Julie -- so sorry you didn't find anything, but I am a strong believer that 
all you need is one little break, and maybe with the search techniques you 
have provided him with he'll be able to get one tidbit of information.  Yes, 
they are delightful people, and I think his son would be pleased if he had 
these people had his parents.  The natural father wants to find so badly, and 
his wife is just as supportive in his efforts.  I'm glad he provided you with 
transportation and covered your costs.  That's fantastic.  Maybe the group in 
Newport News can provide some help, and they may even have someone in their 
group searching for him.  Try all angles, I say! Don't leave a stone 
unturned.  Yes, we people involved in the adoption triad are not out for 
"thank-you's, or reimbursement," just the knowledge that more lives have had 
closure -- and we played a small part in the reunion process.  I always 
appreciate it when someone expresses their appreciation to me -- and it gets 
me going for the next case.  Our mutual friend has not phoned me yet to 
convey what information he didn't find on his trip, but I assume he'll be in 
touch.  I think maybe he should go back to the Dept. of Social Services and 
meet with the Social Worker and see if more of the non-identifying 
information can be given to him.  Many thanks for your efforts, and I'm glad 
you had a day out and it was rewarding to be with some new folks.  Marie 
Anderson
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