RT> AG>right know Drugs....then move on.....not all at the same time..
 RT> Does any of this mean that it is not the responsibility of the kid to
 RT> *not* start on drugs?  I feel that the kid bears most of the
 RT> responsibility for their decisions.
My daughter, who is herself an addict blames poor choices on her part for her 
condition.  She makes a good case there - she had choices, no four people 
held 
her down while the fifth stuck that spike into her arm - she CHOSE to go with 
the action.  
Now she CHOOSES not to behave in that manner.
Any time someone else is always at fault there's a bigger problem that is not 
being addressed.
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