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echo: adhd
to: REGINA FINAN
from: MARIE WEIDEMANN
date: 1997-01-09 19:16:00
subject: Re: Grandaughter

 RF> Here is my question: I know that many girls are overlooked for ADD. 
 RF> Are the symptoms for girls simuliar to boys or are they somewhat
 RF> different? Plus if manic depression runs in our family and my daughter
 RF> has it can this type of behavior show up this early?  My grandson is
 RF> showing extreme signs of ADHD.  Actually alot like Jeremy.  Knowing
 RF> that there seems to be strong indications that these things run in the
 RF> family I am wondering what are the chances or percentage that these
 RF> children have some type of disorder?  Cora's real dad, who she has seen
 RF> once at 3 months old, is dyslexic.  I was told that dyslexic's and ADD
 RF> are many times connected. I haven't really seen what appears to be not
 RF> being able to concentrate although sometimes its hard to get her
 RF> attention.  I think its just her strong personality, but could be
 RF> wrong.  At this point I don't think she needs to be tested since she is
 RF> only 4 and don't think she will let them test her anyways.  My Jonathon
 RF> is somewhat simuliar to her and he would not undergo any type of
 RF> testing including a hearing test until he was in 1st grade.  I have
 RF> also noticed that when she colors she never completes a page and will
 RF> go on to another page and than another.  She will be going to head
 RF> start and I am wondering if this type of thing should be mentioned to
 RF> them? 
 
 RF> Also.  You mentioned once before that if my two boys have ADD/ADHD
 RF> that my daughter could be also.  The only thing I have every seen with
 RF> her is that she constantly talks.  I mean constantly.  You can not
 RF> watch a movie without her opening her mouth.  Even the boys complain. 
 RF> When she watches TV which is not that often. she like to lay down and
 RF> kick her feet.  It seems to be an impulse of hers as you can tell her
 RF> to stop, but she will start again.  She like to be busy with other
 RF> things than watch TV, although she like soap opras.  I never saw a
 RF> problem with her completing a task or not being able to concentrate. 
 RF> She is very brite, but does interrupt you easily.  During class,
 RF> conversations, quiet times or when you are talking or on the phone.  If
 RF> you are talking to her, sometimes it is hard to get her attention and
 RF> she seems to not always be listening to what you say.  Many times I
 RF> have found that you give her a list of instructions and find out she
 RF> did not do it that way.  Then she gets frustrated cause she is a
 RF> perfectionist and an extrovert.  But all of this to me doesn't seem to
 RF> indicate a real ADD.  Unless of course, I am use to the way the boys
 RF> behave which is alot different than her. The type of trouble she gets
 RF> into is pretty normal stuff.  
 RF> For these reasons I am wondering if ADD in girls is different.  Thanks
 RF> in advance.  I hope I am not bugging you with my many questions as you
 RF> seem to be one of those people here who has done quite a bit of
 RF> research. Any info would be appreciated.
 When my 6 year old grandson was diagnosised as AD(H)D, the doctor asked
 if his sister (4 years old) had any problems..one of her problems is that
 she talks all the time..even in her sleep..she tends to be very shy around
 strangers but talks her head off once she gets to know someone..she also
 has a foot moving, nods her head, or taps her fingers. She has something
 moving all the time (besides her mouth). She has been diagnosised as ADD.
 When I was a child, I talked all the time. My mother used to say I was
 vaccinated with a phonograph needle...plus I was always moving some part
 of my body. I still move my foot a lot...I have 3 sons that were "hyper-
 active" when they were younger..and still are..It does seem to run in
 families, but is different in the females.
 Marie
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